Is Skinny the new Healthy?

Angelina Jolie, LeAnn Rimes, Kelly Ripa

What is the first thing that comes to mind when you see these women?

Beautiful, successful, maybe? Well the first thing that comes to my mind is eeww. Yes these women are beautiful and yes they are successful but they’re also very very very skinny!!! So skinny that it’s disgusting. Angelina, LeAnn and Kelly have all stated that despite how thin they are, they are also very healthy. Well, if that’s healthy, no thank you. I do not want it. I am not convinced by any stretch of the imagination that these women are eating balanced, complete 3 meals a day. If they are eating 3 meals a day they are also spending ridiculous amounts of time working out and that’s not healthy either. Their bodies are ugly.

Everyone praises Angelina Jolie for how beautiful she is, while I’m wondering, beautiful where? Yes, she has a pretty face but her body?! She looks like a walking skeleton! You can see every vein, every muscle, and every bone in her body. There’s a reason why she wears those flowing dresses. I believe it’s because she doesn’t want everyone to know how skinny she really is.

This is her in Tomb Raider back in 2001. She was skinny but she had the perfect combination of fat and muscle.

Now in 2011 she’s nothing but skin and bones. There is nothing sexy about this. She looked so much better when she had some weight on her. She’s only 36 years old but she looks well into her 40’s because of her weight. The secret to looking younger is not losing weight but being your proper weight. And this is under weight for her. Yes, she has always been skinny but this is ridiculous.

When Kelly Ripa jumped on the scene in the soap “All My Children”, she was a healthy, normal looking woman. She looked young and vibrant, much like the character she played on the show, Hayley Vaughan. This made her very likable, relatable, and beautiful. Even after 3 children, she has maintained her beautiful glow but now, she has taken the lose-the-baby-weight concept to a whole new level.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to get in shape and be “healthy”, but the definition of healthy has changed dramatically in the past 10 years. Kelly could stand to gain 5-7lbs. It wouldn’t hurt. I just don’t understand how she thinks this is sexy? What’s sexy about being able to see your bones?

Is it worth being able to fit in a size ’00’ dress? I understand that for celebrities their image is everything and they have to look their best at all times, but they should also be realistic and honest. Not everyone is supposed to be skinny. We don’t all have the same body type and that’s okay. For those people who feel that celebrities have to weigh a certain weight to be considered beautiful, have a screwed sense of self.

Money and beauty goes hand in hand, but the line has to be drawn somewhere. There are women all over the world that look at celebrities and try to emulate this flawed sense of beauty and health, not knowing that they have personal trainers, chefs, and busy schedules which keeps them constantly on the go.

LeAnn Rimes looked normal when she was married to Dean Sheremet in 2002.

She was thin but she looked healthy. Fast forward to 2011 to pictures she tweeted of her in a bikini on the beach.

She looks like a skeleton.  She received major backlash for these pictures and to her frail body, but she continually refutes claims that she’s anorexic or has an eating disorder. She claims she’s very healthy and eats all the time but the proof is in the photos. This is not healthy!

It’s all about self-esteem. Once women are comfortable with themselves (at whatever weight they are) and not concerned about what other people have to say about them, then they can be free! Free from what society claims a woman should look like and free to eat whatever she wants. Being healthy is eating a balanced portion of all the foods on the food pyramid (you remember that?) and exercising on a regular basis. So that means you can have chocolate and still be healthy. It’s all in moderation people.

Thanks to Jennifer Lopez, Beyonce and Kim Kardashian for making the tush the new ‘it’ thing. Everybody wants one. I hope one day society will change what the definition of beauty is, so that women can feel good about themselves at all times, even if they’re not a size 0.

So the question is should we blame the women for projecting a false definition of healthy or should we blame society for setting a distorted level of beauty that women are expected to uphold?

Photos: Google Images

Seriously though…who didn’t see this coming?

It’s one thing to catch your man cheating but it’s quite another to find out he not only cheated but now he’s being accused of sexual assault. That’s what happened to Vanessa Bryant, wife of LA Lakers basketball star Kobe Bryant back in 2004. I’ve dealt with a cheating mate in the past but to deal with it in the public eye, with everyone watching you, I’m not sure how I would have done it.

Vanessa, on the other hand, took the high road and stood by her man. She was beside him, hands enclosed in his, as he denied the rape allegations against him and she didn’t speak publicly about it, which helped settle the situation. And on top of that she got a nice sparkler for staying put, otherwise known by People.com as ‘The Apology Ring’.

Now, after more alleged affairs have surfaced, Vanessa has said enough is enough! She filed for divorce from Kobe, December 16th and since there was no prenup, Vanessa will continue to keep up the lavish lifestyle she has come accustomed to for the last 10 1/2 years.

Which has me thinking….

Shouldn’t wives in the public eye kind of assume their husbands are going to cheat sometime in the marriage? I know that sounds a little suspect, but hear me out. Athletes, singers, rappers, actors, anyone in the public eye whose deemed a celebrity in some degree, has women around them all the time. And not your average woman. We’re talking about women who pride themselves on looking the VERY best at all times!

Men, in the public eye, have no choice but to look at these women. I’m not saying they should get a past and I am no way giving them an excuse to cheat, but this is reality. Men love to look at attractive women and for the wives of these celebrity men, you have to be aware of this fact and be okay that your husband might test the waters once or twice.

These sexpot women, sometimes push themselves on celebrity men because they know men can’t resist a big butt and a smile and because there is always an incentive in it for them: MONEY.

So both people are happy: cheating husband who wants attractive lady and the mistress, who loves the thrill of being with a celebrity and gets a taste of the fast and free lifestyle.

Which brings us to the million dollar question every celebrity wife should ask herself. Should I accept the fact that my husband might cheat and still live this lavish lifestyle or if I ever find out he’s cheating, the marriage is over as fast as the ink dries. But why don’t the women put a stipulation in the prenup (if there is one) about cheating? Like if the celebrity is caught cheating she can cheat too, or she gets a certain amount of money if he is caught. I know money will never make up for the emotional turmoil cheating afflicts on one’s heart, but it can most certainly help when restarting your life and career.

The moral of this story is for women to be smart, logical, and realistic when getting married, especially if you’re marrying a celebrity. You can’t control what your husband does in the marriage, but you can protect yourself in the event he does not value your wedding vows just as much as you do.

Source: TMZ, People.com

Images courtesy of Google Images and People.com

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